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Certified High Performance Coach and Leadership Speaker

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Are you ready to find out why men and women from around the country have joined my coaching programs and HOW they are getting such  BIG RESULTS in their Career & Business, Health & Wellness,  Relationships, and Achieving their Goals much faster? 
Working with a coach and being among people who are on the same journey as you, enable you to LEVEL UP AND STAY ON YOUR A GAME! 
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Hi! I’m Jay, a Certified High Performance Coach and Leadership Speaker. I help people turn their dreams into reality and help them focus on what matters so they can live a happier life.  
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I am intense and will give you my honest opinion. I am going to challenge you with difficult questions and guide you to find hard truths about yourself. I am going to hold you accountable for your commitments and challenge you to raise your ambition.

What I offer:

1:1 High Performance Coaching: Designed and tailored for your life.  1:1 coaching is by application only and I only take on 10 clients per year.  

Mastermind Groups: These small groups form quarterly and are by application. Sign up for the newsletter to be notified when available. 

The Forge: An exclusive community and access to weekly team calls, and a library of training.  VIP members receive a 1:1 coaching call. 

1:1 Lifestyle/Accountability Monthly Calls: These calls are designed to focus on productivity and amplify your energy level so you can achieve your goals faster. 

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Being in a demanding role is difficult. You have achieved and accomplished so much in your life because you have a hard work ethic, are disciplined, and have demonstrated your leadership potential.

As a leader, you have to make tough decisions on a regular basis that often impacts everyone’s future - employees, customers, family members, and shareholders.

Do you ever wish you had someone in your corner that you could confide in?  A seasoned professional with real life experience who cares about your success and can provide feedback so you can make the best decision to get the most out of your team? 

When you have to make a tough decision, someone who can help you gain perspective and insight?

Someone who holds you accountable to achieving your goals?

Someone who helps you find strategies to reduce stress and avoid burnout and overwhelm?

If you want to know more, schedule a call. 

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We all want more time for ourselves, our families, our hobbies.  You were designed to do more than work and pay bills.  I help people in demanding roles gain greater skill and discipline of their time management so they become more focused, mitigate interruption and distraction.  So that they can have more time to live a happier and fully engaged life!

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Do you need more focus, structure, and discipline? 

I have 25 years of military experience, where I developed and mentored high performing military leaders to be disciplined, agile, and adaptive leaders, who can handle stressful situations with confidence. 

My programs help entrepreneurs, leaders, self-employed, and other professionals in demanding roles improve their high performing skills and leadership skills so they can reach a higher level. 

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Jay is a Certified High Performance Coach and leadership trainer. He has coached hundreds of people through his 1:1 and group programs. He is an experienced mentor to help you gain new perspective and insights. 

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As a Keynote and Guest Speaker, I have spoken to audiences ranging from 20 to 2,000 people on a variety of topics.  Your audience will leave inspired and motivated to take action toward their personal growth and development.

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Great leaders and organizations are built upon training. Jay teaches a variety of leadership and high performance topics.  He provides training and workshops for individuals and teams at work or from the comfort of their own home. 

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Stephanie Valdivia

Program Manager

Lorenzo Valdivia

CEO of Force Multiplier Self Defense Systems and Host of the Force Multiplier Podcast 

“I am so grateful for Jay who taught me the importance of boundaries and provided some strategies.  I used to excuse the negative behavior of others.  I have learned to stand up for myself and create boundaries and disciplined habits that have improved my life. Selfcare starts with boundaries.” 

Melissa Whittle

Special Education Teacher 

“I am a digital marketing manager and single mom. I was at a point where I felt overwhelmed with maintaining work and family life.  I was merely surviving instead of thriving. I just couldn’t keep up with everything. My work suffered and so did my family. 

However, with Jay’s help, I am more productive, less stressed, and feel more connected with my kids.  His strategies work! I now feel like I am back on top!

Lacy  Priesmeyer

Digital Marketing Manager 

“Jay is a wonderful coach! I watched him complete the first 75 days of the 75 Hard program. His constant enthusiasm, honesty, and hard work is extremely motivating and helped me decide to join in and complete my own 75 day journey. During that time I also met with him virtually for 1 on 1 sessions.

His accountability and structure helped me get through so many obstacles I had been putting off for so long. I appreciate his method, stern when he needs to be, but willing to run beside you when you're struggling. I have had an extremely productive 4 months because of his guidance and knowledge, and am very excited about my newly created habits. I highly recommend Jay to everyone.”

Kate Ward 

Real Estate Agent 


This 14-page guide is my morning playbook to WIN EACH DAY.  It includes my 7 actions to start the day on firm footing, journal prompts to set your mindset and intention and 3 MORNING HABITS YOU MUST STOP!

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